One day..
It was Sunday. She was eagerly waiting for this day
as she could talk to her brother who lives in Banglore. As routine my “Good morning” message got delivered to her Bypassing mobile towers and satellites..
“Hey good morning.. woke up so early?? “
“ yeah was disturbed by power cut”
“ ok ok me feeling sleepy but have to wakeup. “
“ So what are your plans today” I asked her to
prolong the talks.
“Have to clean my room, dust my cupboards, need to
do small shopping. And forgot to say, to talk with my brother and later may go
for a movie with mom” she said in sleepy mood.
“oh dats great. Ok den will chat later.”
“hmmm ok ok see you”
I was sure she would do only two things in the above
stated list.
i.)
Long lasting call to brother.
ii.)
Small shopping.
When a girl say “ Just a small shopping” its simply
means it gonna takes hours of time. The things they buy are quite enough to go for an holiday to Antarctica . They walk from home thinking to
buy some clothes, later they look after footwear and buy makeup kit. And soon
after reaching home, they again think of buying some clothes. Totally confused
people on earth.
Later on the same day night…..
Our discussion started with “ So how was your day”.
This one sentence has changed a lot of things..
Topic : Her friends engagement.
“Am a girl, soon I will leave my parents, my
brother, my home with whom I lived for years which hold so many memories.”
I was listening to her quietly. When a girl talks
emotionally never ever interrupt them.
“After all why should we leave our parents after
marriage. Why can’t you boys come to us?” she was asking me to answer this type
of questions in such situation. The main person beyond this topic was her
brother.
“What happened to you? Is every thing right? “ I
asked clueless.
“First answer my question.” She said bluntly.
“ I donno. How would I know. First tell me what has
happened with you.”
“nothing”
The word “nothing” from a girl has enough content to
fill minimum 500 pages of a book.
“chill. Jus say if ur comfortable “ said I.
“My college friend’s engagement is on coming Sunday.
In our conversation ( with brother ) I told about this. The whole conversation turned to my marriage
topic…..”
Even before she completes the line, I got a jolt. I
went blank for a minute. Reason … unknown.
…………….. you boys are lucky.” She finished talking. I was still still.
“ You people are very lucky. You ppl don’t have the
torture from parents about marriage. You
ppl don’t have to leave your parents. We
will be under your orders after marriage.
We have to look after you, your parents. Take care of home. Etc., etc.,
you don’t have such responsibilities.”
“ We do have more responsibilities than you girls
have. After marriage, we have to look after our parents and you. Earn double to
give better life to you. Have to give
equal priorities to both parents and you.
We have take care of you, your family, our family and lastly have to
take care of us. We have to give financial and personal security to you and
family. Have to take care of kids, their broughtup, education………..
These lines came down from my blank mind. Still I was wondering why girls get married
ro fast.
“ ok ok stop,
I agree with you. Men and women both play a prominent role in marriage. “
“that’s what am saying . you cant give all
attributes women alone” I said in a frustrating tone. Reason behind it was
unknown.
“Ok ok I agree. Lets have change of topic.” She said
as the matter was going a bit serious.
“Hmmm. So how
was you day , u said shopping. What u bought”?
“I bought footwear. I bought them for discount price
and they are awesome.”
Businessmen are too clever, first they double the
rate and put a tag of 50% discount. And women go mad as soon as they see the
discount tag.
“Oh dats grt..!!
ok then I will leave. Have some work.” And I signed off abruptly. I
lied. I just walked to terrace . I was feeling strange sensation, weak in
knees. Afraid. nervous. I never felt
this even when I faced the toughest exams in my collage. Even the chill breeze of
the mid night dint help me cool myself.
Questions were..
1. Why
am worried about her marriage?
2. Why am feeling that am in verge of losing some
thing?
3. Why
on earth am walking on terrace in the mid night?
After several rounds of walking
done. My brain started working. It said I lover her. My heart said mr. brain is
right this time. You love her. The
answer for all my questions.
I was not sure whether it was love or like or infatuation
or what ever it is. Am afraid of missing
her. And I decided to disclose my
feeling to her. But was afraid. What if she say no.. our friendship will be ruined. My thoughts marathon was paused by her msg.
“ r u sleeping”
“No” i Answered
in mono syllable.
“ missing my brother and dad a lott”. Her dad stays in Chennai. Brother in Bangalore.
Once in a while, their family reunions.
“ I can
understand. Soon you ppl will be under one roof” said I to console her. i thought texting was not right I called her.
“ hi” the voice came from other side. She was
crying.
“ Are you ok” I asked. Later I realized what a dumb
question I asked.
“ yaya am fine”
I took a sigh.. and you people know what would have
happened next. When a girl cries, the whole world comes to her aid. I was not
an exemption. Finally, after one hour and seventeen minutes, she laughed as
hard as she can. My mission was accomplished.
“ plz stop it I cant take it anymore. My stomach is
aching”
“ ok ok I will now I think u need some sleep.. “
said i.
“ yeah I will sleep now.”
“Ok then good night. Sweet dreams.” I bade a bye.
“ yeah u too”.
Its so lovely to talk with her into nights. We loose
all the sense of time and surroundings , completely lost, suddenly one of us
glances at the watch and say “ Its has been rather long”.
Again my mobile flashed. There was a msg from her.
“ I don’t
know what to say kushal. You are such a nice person whom I never ever met. . You have always been special to me. You
always make me smile. Today u turned my tears into smile. I can’t thank you. But I want to say something.
“I WANT TO GIVE YOU ONE WHOLE DAY OF MY LIFE. ON
THAT DAY I WILL DO WHAT EVER U SAY. I WILL BE THE WAY U WANT. ITS MY PROMISE” I
never said this to Varun nor Satya. ( satya : her best frnd, later I will introduce him).
In future ,what ever may happen but I won’t
leave you. You won my heart. Good night.:) "
I finished scrolling down. I don’t know whether it was dream or my
imagination. I took some time to realize it was not a dream nor my imagination.
I had a bright smile on face and
butterflies in my stomach. She likes me.
Yes.! :)
I replied with a smiley to her msg coz i ran out of
words.
I still remember, I dint sleep the whole night. I was
damn happy. A girl wants to
dedicate entire day to me. Wants to spend the whole day with me. Which girl
does that??
To continued...
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